I feel like I bit more off more than I could chew with this organization topic! I have spent lots of time muling this over lately and it's so hard to know where to start. It's not like there is a beginning when it comes to organization! Everyone has their own beginning. Only you know where you are.
You want to get organized {or more organized} in 2012, right? Most people do - including myself. However, past inklings to get life in order might have begun and ended in subscribing to Martha Stewart Living, and Good Housekeeping magazines, or signing up for some of those {annoying} daily emails that clog the ol' inbox.
Somewhere in there, something breaks down.
What happens between the desire to get organized and that step of action of making some progress? Let's not get into too much psychology here, but I think it's important to start at the root of the problem. Bear with me.
Common mental roadblocks we face with organization:
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The above list is just a sampling of roadblocks. We each have to figure out what our unique holdups are before we can ever overcome them and attain the level of order in our lives that we desire.
Maybe you have a laid back personality and organization isn't something you feel is a big deal.
Maybe you have seen organization and housework taken to an extreme level in your home growing up and it's a turnoff to you now.
Both extremes can - and do! - present problems.
I think before we can move on to addressing our organization issues, we need to ask ourselves this question: what are my priorities? Then we need to write them down. If you don't know what is important to you and your family, then your actions will be hit and miss.
Here are some of my priorities to help get you started on your own:
I want to....
1) have a home that is pleasant to live in and that company feels relaxed and comfortable in.
2) be able to find things quickly!
3) be on the same page as my husband, so we both know what's going on that day/week.
4) have a system for following up with people promptly {Facebook, texts, emails, phone calls, etc}!
I hope this list helps get you started!
Organization Mantra:
It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan. - Eleanor Roosevelt
But all things should be done decently and in order. - I Corinthians 14:40 {ESV}
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Resources I have found helpful:
Very true. . . being organized takes work and completely different approach depending on what's going on in life- I was really good about being organized with just Mercedes and I, but now that adam is home again I find it's a lot harder! I have to go about it a completely different way! anyway. . . coming up with priorities is a great idea and way to keep focused!
ReplyDeleteThank you for taking the time to share your thoughts, Sarah! I can see how having your hubby home now {YA!} changes up your schedule and therefor your organization habits. As long as you have your priorities figured out, then how you achieve them can flex with the phase of life you are in. Thanks for stopping by!
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ReplyDeleteHi Emily, I think organization is a great topic for January! The stores are currantly advertising two main types of products- fitness and tools for organization (mostly storage containers). My personal goals for organization are to start by having less stuff. Much less stuff. I'm willing to take the time to organize what enriches our lives, but the rest has to go. I don't want to waste too much of my precious time moving stuff around. I'd rather spend as much time as possible with the people I love. Looking forward to reading more of your personal journey on this topic:) Love ya! & Happy Birthday!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you for the birthday wishes :0)! I enjoyed reading your thoughts and I have to agree with you, Mary! Organization does seem to be a huge topic this month! It's kind of intimidating to try to cover it when there are so many qualified people doing a fantastic job at it ready. I love your personal goal of having less stuff. I think that is key to a simplified lifestyle. It sounds like you already have your priorities figured out in this area {more time with loved ones}. Organization should be an avenue...not a destination. But, I'm kind of getting ahead of myself...my next post is on de-cluttering...so I'll talk more about that tomorrow! Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment! {I appologize for any spelling/grammar errors...I'm on my phone and my eyes are starting to cross haha!}
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